When things were as simple as the following scenario:
My sister took my niece in for a flu shot. After the shot, Little Lu was crying. And here is the simple fundamental lesson from a 4 year old...
Sister: "It's all over now, why are you crying?"
Little Lu: laughed and said, "Oh! I don't know!"
(This made her giggle for days afterwards.)
Hanging on to suffering is not necessary. And, that's that!
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