And... so it is!
An oil pastel drawing I did at the end of the day today. And, like I told ya the first day of the NAMI Convention, I will try to post a picture of something AT LEAST!
I am blown away by the forethought and work that so many people have put in to this thing. I really hope to be a part of the innards ASAP!
And, here's to the last day tomorrow! May all have many insights to take home with them.
Thank you,
Good night!
Leslie Cooper,
Your Favorite Oxymoron
P.S. Any guesses on the type of bird'd eye this could be??? (Liz? any idea on the plural?)
;-)
Showing posts with label speak out. Show all posts
Showing posts with label speak out. Show all posts
Saturday, June 29, 2013
Sunday, June 9, 2013
I am a human being with Borderline Personality Disorder AND I have a lot more to me than that!
What is Borderline Personality Disorder? check out this link for some information...
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Please remember that I am human. I am not perfect. I was given free will. My brain has been skewed by genetics and situations in my life. I am constantly (even when it doesn't look like it...) working to be aware of my initial emotions before they take off without my permission! Mindfulness. I need a post about that. I am sure I have started one...
Oh, and I have discovered a bit of a problem. I will take suggestions or offers for assistance! I think a tiny part of my issue with incomplete posts might have to do with a tiny issue I have with perfectionism. Which I do know that perfection is pretty much impossible. And possibly an issue I should work on a bit more. But, one thing at a time people! Come on! SO... (maria?) I am looking for an editor of sorts. I would just like to have someone look over a post and point out obvious errors in grammar or punctuation. AND I need someone who will not take the ME out of this... but possibly just keep a post more or less on the same subject. Even a reminder that I wanted to expand on something I had spoken of earlier but cut off (hopefully) to get back to the point. Huh. What was the point to this post? Seriously, I had NO idea the answer to that question until I reviewed the other text! haha... not funny...
Hope you are having a great start to the "Month AFTER National Borderline Personality Disorder Month!!!" I heard in a movie once that it was good for a lady to be fashionably late... I don't remember the exact parameters around the "fashionably" so I just stick with LATE!
Much warmth or cool (which ever you are in the mood for!) to all of you!
Leslie Cooper,
Your Favorite Oxymoron
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Please remember that I am human. I am not perfect. I was given free will. My brain has been skewed by genetics and situations in my life. I am constantly (even when it doesn't look like it...) working to be aware of my initial emotions before they take off without my permission! Mindfulness. I need a post about that. I am sure I have started one...
Oh, and I have discovered a bit of a problem. I will take suggestions or offers for assistance! I think a tiny part of my issue with incomplete posts might have to do with a tiny issue I have with perfectionism. Which I do know that perfection is pretty much impossible. And possibly an issue I should work on a bit more. But, one thing at a time people! Come on! SO... (maria?) I am looking for an editor of sorts. I would just like to have someone look over a post and point out obvious errors in grammar or punctuation. AND I need someone who will not take the ME out of this... but possibly just keep a post more or less on the same subject. Even a reminder that I wanted to expand on something I had spoken of earlier but cut off (hopefully) to get back to the point. Huh. What was the point to this post? Seriously, I had NO idea the answer to that question until I reviewed the other text! haha... not funny...
Hope you are having a great start to the "Month AFTER National Borderline Personality Disorder Month!!!" I heard in a movie once that it was good for a lady to be fashionably late... I don't remember the exact parameters around the "fashionably" so I just stick with LATE!
Much warmth or cool (which ever you are in the mood for!) to all of you!
Leslie Cooper,
Your Favorite Oxymoron
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Lookie lookie lookie what I found over here!!! ;-)
When I was diagnosed with ADD (almost 2 years ago now!) I read an article about SIMPLE simplifying. The idea was to get rid of things that were junking up my inbox. For instance, I could unsubscribe from all of the online catalogs and the things that I could GO "look up" when I was "looking" for something in particular. This might sound pretty obvious to you, but to me it was a lightbulb. I had subscribed to so many things because I didn't want to miss anything! And, can you guess what really happened??? I had TOO MANY! And I was missing EVERYTHING along with building an inbox full of around 2,000 unread emails... It was pretty unbelievable... I mean hundreds of emails came even after I thought I had hit them all!
There were a select few that were saved from the wrath of my unsubscribing frenzy. These were the things that I wanted to be reminded of and I hoped for informative emails from. And you have no idea how happy I was to get this particular "junk mail" in my inbox today! (Well, if you know me at all... you might have an inkling. If you don't, you're about to!)
One of my ALL TIME FAVORITE PEOPLE... She is an author and an inventor and a farmer and a scientist and an advocate and a teacher and a speaker and a philosopher and a philanthropist and a student of life AND on top of all that... she is an autistic woman with the most fantabulous western shirt collection aside from Roy Rogers himself!!! That's right! Dr. Temple Grandin is her name. :-) (I like her.) I have read almost all of her books... I came upon the first one Thinking in Pictures 17 years ago (OMG! that's a loooong time agoooo...), right after I graduated from high school. I was working at a summer "camp" (daycare) at my church. It was better than camp for me though! I fell absolutely and completely in love with the most fantastic little boy I had ever met! His name was Stefan and he changed the way I looked at things. He was pretty severely autistic and pretty hard to handle for some. I, on the other hand, lived to come to work and work with him. He returned my affection by trusting me. It was an amazing experience and I wanted to learn more! That's when I found this lady, Dr. Temple Grandin. She is autistic and thriving! And, she is an animal lover with a passion for and dedication to their welfare too! I found her story oh so riveting... And, I felt a kinship with her... I guess I did with Stefan too... I wanted to understand. And, I felt understood.
Anyway, I am happy to share the deal that dropped into my inbox today. ~ Read the wisdom that comes from perseverance AND (;-)) application of knowledge... Lookie lookie lookie it's eBooks for every device!!!
Dr. Temple Grandin Library
So, the even more exciting-ness that happened because of this strange chain of events I've connected here... Wait for it! AAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I found out that Dr. Temple Grandin will be speaking at a conference! In 7 days! Less than 30 minutes from mi casa!!! I almost hesitated to ask my boss/dad for another day off (if you only knew how much work I've missed this past year alone...). But, my dad knows that I wouldn't have asked for anyone or anything besides Temple Grandin or Elvis (and that would be under the condition that I KNEW I'd get to meet him.) ;-) So, extra fingers crossed for health and all that. I want to be clear and connected that day. And, maybe I will get to ask a question!?!? Or maybe I'll take her some of my own sheep's wool!!! Oh boy! I don't know how I will sleep for the next week...
Hoping for less junk and more exciting-ness in your lives as well!
<3 Love <3
Leslie AKA Your Favorite Oxymmoron
There were a select few that were saved from the wrath of my unsubscribing frenzy. These were the things that I wanted to be reminded of and I hoped for informative emails from. And you have no idea how happy I was to get this particular "junk mail" in my inbox today! (Well, if you know me at all... you might have an inkling. If you don't, you're about to!)
One of my ALL TIME FAVORITE PEOPLE... She is an author and an inventor and a farmer and a scientist and an advocate and a teacher and a speaker and a philosopher and a philanthropist and a student of life AND on top of all that... she is an autistic woman with the most fantabulous western shirt collection aside from Roy Rogers himself!!! That's right! Dr. Temple Grandin is her name. :-) (I like her.) I have read almost all of her books... I came upon the first one Thinking in Pictures 17 years ago (OMG! that's a loooong time agoooo...), right after I graduated from high school. I was working at a summer "camp" (daycare) at my church. It was better than camp for me though! I fell absolutely and completely in love with the most fantastic little boy I had ever met! His name was Stefan and he changed the way I looked at things. He was pretty severely autistic and pretty hard to handle for some. I, on the other hand, lived to come to work and work with him. He returned my affection by trusting me. It was an amazing experience and I wanted to learn more! That's when I found this lady, Dr. Temple Grandin. She is autistic and thriving! And, she is an animal lover with a passion for and dedication to their welfare too! I found her story oh so riveting... And, I felt a kinship with her... I guess I did with Stefan too... I wanted to understand. And, I felt understood.
Anyway, I am happy to share the deal that dropped into my inbox today. ~ Read the wisdom that comes from perseverance AND (;-)) application of knowledge... Lookie lookie lookie it's eBooks for every device!!!
Dr. Temple Grandin Library
Source: fhautism.com via Leslie on Pinterest
So, the even more exciting-ness that happened because of this strange chain of events I've connected here... Wait for it! AAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I found out that Dr. Temple Grandin will be speaking at a conference! In 7 days! Less than 30 minutes from mi casa!!! I almost hesitated to ask my boss/dad for another day off (if you only knew how much work I've missed this past year alone...). But, my dad knows that I wouldn't have asked for anyone or anything besides Temple Grandin or Elvis (and that would be under the condition that I KNEW I'd get to meet him.) ;-) So, extra fingers crossed for health and all that. I want to be clear and connected that day. And, maybe I will get to ask a question!?!? Or maybe I'll take her some of my own sheep's wool!!! Oh boy! I don't know how I will sleep for the next week...
Hoping for less junk and more exciting-ness in your lives as well!
<3 Love <3
Leslie AKA Your Favorite Oxymmoron
Monday, February 25, 2013
Anniversary Blog! & Say WHAT?
"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you think you cannot do."
Later!
Your Favorite Oxymoron,
Leslie
~ Eleanor Roosevelt ~
(1884-1962)
My question: Which "thing I think I cannot do" should I start with?
So, today marks one month since the inception of this blog. And... it's possible I should give myself some credit. (I'm sure I'd hear about it if I didn't...)
I was terrified to start this though. Not only was I afraid of people seeing me, I was afraid of seeing myself. fail. again. And I was really afraid of what would happen next. That last statement includes what would happen if something really were to come of this! Win! Win! Fear... Ick...
But, when I look back to these few posts... I do recognize the strength AND courage AND confidence I have gained in such a short time. Each post has catapulted me through to the next post. And, I feel an excitement when I'm writing them! The fear is still great big and really ugly AND I bulldoze my way through it.
Someone once told me to "imagine what it would look like to use all that negative energy (anger, shame, and fear) for good". Well, if that's what I'm warming up to...
Everybody... WATCH OUT!
Because that is where over 30 years of energy has been building!
And, if you've ever met "The Hulk" you know what I'm talking about! Can I hear an Amen? AMEN! I thought so...
Well, huh. What's next? I did start Tweeting again... I'm @faveoxymoron . This is pretty exciting for me too. I'll tell you why another time...
Your Favorite Oxymoron,
Leslie
Monday, February 11, 2013
Say WHAT?
"Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen."
~ Winston Churchill ~
British politician (1874 - 1965)
This pretty much summarizes my greatest lesson of the past several months. Well, ok, two of the greatest anyway... :-P
And now, I will present to you TWO, that's right! TWO of my mega show stopping fears...
drumroll please...
Speaking up when it's necessary!
AND...
drumroll again(?)... please(!)...
Shutting UP when it's time to listen!
So, in the spirit of speaking up and s
Do you relate to this "quote" somehow? Do you have a different perspective regarding this "quote"? Do you just want to make me smile by leaving a little something in the comments section???
I'm going out on a limb here folks! Addressing more great fears of rejection and failure here... So, help a girl out and tell me something!
With much gratitude,
Leslie,
Your Favorite Oxymoron <3
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